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Lay A Foundation of Love For A Christ-Centered Marriage

Without 

The Drama, Confusion, and Overwhelm

The Foundations For Love Membership experience will give you the coaching and tools you need to effectively pursue your God-given desire for marriage. 

I am giving you my signature Course Ready For The One, a comprehensive program that teaches you all the relationship skills and tools you need to show up for love in a way that feels great and honors your values. 

Plus, private coaching with me. That means you'll have all the accountability and support you need to get married and enjoy a Christ-centered love story. 

ALL Packages Include Immediate Access To: 

 

My Signature Course:

Ready For The One 

  • Six core modules that cover the primary relationship milestones
  • Over 30 Video lessons
  • Workbook for each module

 PLUS 

  • 90-Day Devotional
  • Weekly Group Coaching
  • Access to Replay Library (coming soon)
  • Meditation pack 
  • 31 Day Challenge 
  • Conversation Starters 
  • The Relationship Starter Course
  • New Bonuses Added Each Month!

Ruby

$49/m

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • 1 Private coaching call monthly (60-mins)  
START NOW

Sapphire

$120/m

Most Popular

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • 2 Private coaching calls  (60-mins each)  
START NOW

Emerald

$479/m

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • Weekly Private coaching calls (60 mins each) + priority scheduling
START NOW

Before I Tell You All About This Life-Changing Program, Let’s Talk About Who This Is Really For...

 

You’ve been burned before. You thought you heard God, but when it didn't work out, you spent a long time questioning whether you've ever heard God at all. 

You're a warm, tender-hearted giver who sincerely wants to love and be loved.

You want to commit, and you want to let someone in, but you're not sure if you're ready. 

You hope to make a significant difference in the life of someone special but you don't want to lose yourself in a relationship again or compromise your relationship with God.

Whether You're...

  • 25, 45, or 65+ years old

  • Been through a divorce or never been kissed

  • Shy as a mouse or a little "too" much 

  • Know exactly what your want or feel totally clueless

You’re in the right place, and I’m going to tell you exactly how the Foundations For Love Program will give you the mindset, tools, and Christ-centered support you’ll ever need on your journey towards love

 

What I love the most about this course is the bite-sized wisdom I incorporated into my every day and the fact that I can revisit the work as often as I want. 

Meeting Lily and deciding to have her as my coach was one of the best decisions I have made because I didn’t realize just how much brain drama I had! She has really helped sift through a lot of confusing, scary,  and unhelpful, thoughts. I know this work was necessary in order for me to grow into the woman God created me to be.

I would recommend this program to the women who know they have so much love to give to the right man but are tired of the hurt.

Vicky Spooner UK

 

Exclusive Limited Time Offer

With this coaching experience,

you'll be able to…

  • Established a solid foundation for your marriage by building upon your relationship with God. 
  • Discovered your true worth and made sure your validation comes from Christ alone. 
  • Selectively connected with men who meet your standards and have true potential as an equally-yoked marriage partner. 
  • Validated your relationship to make sure he is ready and willing to invest in marriage
  • Prayerfully considered and vetted each individual before advancing the relationship. 
  • Navigated those challenging questions and conversations that can make or break a relationship. 
  • Reduced the length of time between starting a relationship and announcing your engagement by decreasing the uncertainty and unnecessary drama. 
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A Small Sample Of Our Amazing Alumni

I finally know who I am in Christ and believe that it's okay to cherish myself.  I can’t wait to wake up and spend some quality time with Jesus now.  I can’t wait to let my future husband know I have been praying for Him! All of this has been a huge blessing and I have loved working with Lily and the RFTO program.

- Melissa 

 

I feel this course brought order to my life. It answered deep core questions and guided me through situations that came up in the dating process. It provided solid troubleshooting for potential dating situations, and it gave me the confidence to ask for exactly what I need. Plus, the coaching support was priceless.

- Simone

 

Ready For The One was amazing for helping me step through the phases of transforming my mind and heart to prepare for embracing love from God and a man again. I needed Lily and her program to help me to see the fear and habits that were holding me back from trying to pursue love. 

- Abdi 

 

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What’s Inside

Ready For The One

 

Module 1

Take Back Your Power

 

When you co-author your love story with God you get to decide what the ending will look like. You want a marriage that lasts a lifetime and doesn't end in divorce, like so many other marriages these days. 

Here’s why it pays to take full responsibility for your love life - because it gets you out of that damsel in distress mentality and puts you back in the driver seat for making Christ-centred decisions about who you choose to love and why. 

You’re going to get on the fast track to deciding who you are, what you want, and how you’re going to get it. Stop wasting time in indecision and overwhelm and start making choices that honor God and the dreams He has hidden in your heart. 

Highlights:

  • Learn how to use The Life Code, my primary coaching tool for adopting the mind of Christ, fuelling your relationships with the fruit of the Holy Spirit, and developing self-control for the Glory of God.
  • Grow in your spiritual and emotional maturity so that you can make decisions about your future with integrity and wisdom. 
  • Discover your God-given desires and what you really want in a partner and map out a plan to pursue your purpose with conviction and grace. 
  • Set yourself up for success by making peace with your past and examining your daily habits to ensure you prioritize taking care of yourself so that you can avoid developing codependent habits

Module 2

Know Your Worth

 

You’re worth more than rubies, and it’s time to let it show. 

Learn to trust yourself, God and men again so that you can start creating a love story that demonstrates the faithfulness of the Lord in this world. 

You’ll start by Identifying who you want, what you want, and why you want it. These key decisions will give you TOTAL clarity about where you're going and how you’ll get there. 

By embracing your true identity in Christ, you can approach love and relationships from a place of confidence and assurance in who He created you to be. Overcome the temptation to people please and hide behind socially acceptable masks, by cherishing your core values and what makes you unique.

 

Highlights:

  • Never go on another date feeling love-starved. Prevent a multitude of missteps by practicing my 7 practical principles for starting a new relationship with respect and trust. 
  • Avoid sabotaging your relationship by managing your expectations and recognizing manipulative tendencies in yourself and others. 
  • Craft an irresistible offer that attracts quality men and protects you from narcissists and those who would prefer to hurt you, use you or waste your time.

Module 3

Dating

 

Raise your hand if you’ve ever had this problem…

You want to make a good first impression, so you take out literally every piece of clothing you own, try it all on, and hate everything. Then you spend almost 3 hours working on your hair and makeup and leave the house feeling like you've been attacked by a parade of clowns and their makeup brushes. 

Everything spirals out of control, and getting ready for a date has left you feeling like a hot mess!

Yep, I totally get it!
I’ve done it myself no less than 900 times. 

But I have since discovered there's an art and science to making a good first impression. 

As a woman, you want to fully express your femininity. You want to look your best, dare I say, sexy, while still being modest and classy. The last thing you want to do is send the wrong signals.

That’s why in Module 3, you’ll get access to the exact formula you need to send the right signals, both online and in the real world.

Making a great first impression is a skill that you can learn and master. Show up feeling confident, brilliant and beautiful in every area of your life, without destroying your closet.

Highlights:

  • Meet quality men even if you attend a small church or live in a little town. Be strategic about positioning yourself in the way of love so that you never have to chase it. 
  • Decide on your personal dating protocol. Set your own rules according to what you feel led to through the guidance and wisdom of the Holy Spirit to help you be successful and safe. 
  • Understand the art and science of a good first impression and establish trust and honest communication right from the beginning. 
  • Transition through the dating phase efficiently while collecting the necessary information to make an informed decision about whether or not to proceed to the next stage of the relationship. 

Module 4

Discernment

 

Do you second guess yourself and lay awake all night questioning whether or not you made the right decision? 

Learn the art of making Christ-centered decisions guided by the wisdom of the Holy Spirit, because choosing who you're going to spend the rest of your life with is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make.

Not only are you entering into a holy covenant with this man, but he will also have a tremendous impact on your children, family, finances, faith and every other area of your life.

These are deep and important questions, but, the answers aren’t out in the world somewhere. They’re hidden in your heart being whispered to you by the still small voice within. 

In this powerful module you’ll learn to quiet the chaos in your mind and recognize the voice of the Good Shepherd who is guiding you forward. 

 

Highlights:

  • Don’t stay stuck in indecision, confusion or overwhelm. Make Christ-centered decisions that you feel good about. 
  • Enjoy more time with God. This entire program is designed to take your relationship with Jesus to a deeper level. Take all your cares and worries to Him and learn to hear His answers clearly.
  • Stop beating yourself up. Let go of perfectionism and finally embrace the reality of life on Earth, the good, bad and ugly, knowing at the deepest level that ALL things are working for your good.

Module 5

Courtship

 

Courtship is a beautiful and necessary bridge between dating and engagement.

Unfortunately, within modern dating culture, it is terribly misunderstood, neglected and ignored. As a result, romantic relationships get stuck in the “wait and see” zone, until it inevitably falls apart. 

Don’t let that happen to you. 

Courtship isn’t rigid, old fashioned or outdated. It works, and it feels amazing because you’re both on the same page and know exactly where the relationship is headed.

In this special module, I’ll show you how to talk about your courtship and transitioning the relationship to the next level without scaring him off. 

Highlights:

  • Learn everything you need to know about courtship and how to make it work for you and your relationship.
  • What to do when you're in the courtship phase and the 10 categories you need to talk about prior to engagement. 
  • How to harmonize instead of compromise so that you can both get what you want and need from the relationship. 

Module 6

Prepare For Marriage

Once you know that he is the one for you, there are a few more things you’ll want to put in place to help ensure your marriage is set up to last a lifetime. 

In the final module, you’ll tackle the 3 biggest obstacles that come up between married couples. Sex and Money and Conflict. 

Establish your marriage on a good, Christ-centered foundation by working through these issues in advance so there are no misunderstandings or surprises later on. 

Then, in the final lesson, we will talk about how to make sure you have a honeymoon experience worth remembering.

Highlights:

  • Make the transition from “me to we” with intentional clarity and understanding.
  • Develop a deeper level of intimacy with your fiancé as you prepare for a lifetime of committed love. 
  • Give yourself peace of mind knowing that you have prayerfully considered everything and can enter into the holy covenant of marriage with humble assurance that there are no secrets between the two of you.

Plus These Bonuses to Help You Develop A Deeper Connection With You, God, and Your Future Spouse

Bonus 1

Private Coaching 

Choose the level of accountability and coaching support that makes sense for you. 

 

What You’ll Get:

  • An intimate, highly supportive Christ-centred coaching experience with Lily where you'll get the clarity and perspective you need to move forward
  • Direct feedback on your efforts and guidance on how to apply the tools you're learning to your specific situation
  • A safe and sacred space where you can talk about real issues without fear of judgement

 Bonus 2

All Access Pass To Everything I Create!

 

  • Daily Devotional

  • Weekly Group Coaching

  • Access to Replay Library 

  • Meditation pack 
  • 31 Day Challenge 
  • Conversation Starters 
  • The Relationship Starter Course
  • New Bonus Material Added Each Month!

 ***No Contract - Cancel or Switch plans anytime.  

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Frequently Asked Questions

ALL Packages Include Immediate Access To: 

 

My Signature Course:

Ready For The One 

  • Six core modules that cover the primary relationship milestones
  • Over 30 Video lessons
  • Workbook for each module

 PLUS 

  • 90-Day Devotional
  • Weekly Group Coaching
  • Access to Replay Library (coming soon)
  • Meditation pack 
  • 31 Day Challenge 
  • Conversation Starters 
  • The Relationship Starter Course
  • New Bonuses Added Each Month!

Ruby

$49/m

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • 1 Private coaching call monthly (60-mins)  
BUY NOW

Sapphire

$120/m

Most Popular

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • 2 Private coaching calls  (60-mins each)  
BUY NOW

Emerald

$479/m

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • Weekly Private coaching calls (60 mins each) + priority scheduling
BUY NOW

Still thinking about it?

You should sign up and pursue your God-given desire for marriage if...

1.You want to get it right the FIRST TIME. 

 

If you've been holding back from the dating scene because you don't know where to begin or how to pursue love in a way that honors God, and you're feeling scared, this program will help you overcome those initial obstacles and get you started on the right path. 

More importantly, you'd prefer not to waste years of your life flirting with men who aren't able to fulfill the role you expect a man to play in a Christ-centred marriage. 

That's why you're motivated beyond measure to spend the next few month getting super clear on exactly what you want and laying a solid foundation to achieve your God-given desire. 

 

2. Experience has proved that you could use some help.

 

You've had some experience with men, but you've discovered that things don't come as naturally as you expected. 

Before you go any further, you'd like some expert guidance on how to navigate the more technical parts of starting a relationship and transitioning through the various stages. 

If you're feeling driven to dig deeper into the who, what, why and when of successful faith-based relationships you'll absolutely love what's inside Ready For The One. 

 

3. You've been burned before. 

 

Whether you've been a heartbreaker or had your heart broken you know that you could have made better decisions if you had been given a little more information. 

Perhaps you wouldn't have held on so long in hopes that he would change, or you would have known when it was time to let go. 

The best way to avoid repeating the cycle is to break it with intentional and deliberate prayer, love and action. 

 

4. Online dating, speed dating, and blind dating, have all failed. 

 

If you've already invested in putting yourself out there and you're not getting the results you want, it's time to reassess how you're using these tools. 

In Ready For The One, I teach you how to "put yourself in the way of love" without compromising on your core values. 

Whether you dating online or in real life, you'll learn the communication skills for making a great first impression, having meaningful conversations and sparking a connection regardless of where and how you meet. 

 

5. Heartbreak seems unbearable. 

 

It's not even your heart that you're worried about, it's his!

What if you meet a man who adores you, but whom you feel no romantic attraction towards?

If the idea of breaking up with someone, or getting hurt seems like too much, this course will help you lean into the truth, that you are more than strong enough to endure the pain in the event that a relationship doesn't go the way you hoped it would. 

As they say, "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all". 

 

6. You're ready to do whatever it takes to achieve your dream of being in a Christ-centered marriage.

 

You're done wasting time and as long as you don't have to compromise on your relationship with God, you're ready and excited to do what it takes to get out there and attract the right one for you. 

It's true that you're excited to discover more about yourself and you know that the best way to grow is to invest in yourself and do something new and challenging. 

That's why you're looking for an opportunity to dig in deep and push yourself to step outside of your comfort zone because there's so much more to life that you're excited to embrace and experience. 

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I can’t wait for you to join The Foundations Program

 

Being confidently married to a godly man with Christ at the center of our lives is THE single greatest blessing in my life.  

It is the most powerful and exciting way to make an impact on the world while raising a family and sharing the gospel.  

My marriage allows me to grow spiritually everyday and fulfill my deepest desire to be a loving mom of two beautiful little girls. 

 

While other marriages are falling apart and suffering from a lack of trust, intimacy, love, and respect; a thriving marriage actually stands as a shining testimony of what is possible through the love of Christ. 

It's the only type of marriage that gives others any real hope and the courage to believe that true love still exists. 

You can make an impact on the world through your marriage while staying true to your identity in Christ and being fully known and cherished by the love of your life. 

 

-Lily Mtongwiza

ALL Packages Include Immediate Access To: 

 

My Signature Course:

Ready For The One 

  • Six core modules that cover the primary relationship milestones
  • Over 30 Video lessons
  • Workbook for each module

 PLUS 

  • 90-Day Devotional
  • Weekly Group Coaching
  • Access to Replay Library (coming soon)
  • Meditation pack 
  • 31 Day Challenge 
  • Conversation Starters 
  • The Relationship Starter Course
  • New Bonuses Added Each Month!

Ruby

$49/m

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • 1 Private coaching call monthly (60-mins)  
BUY NOW

Sapphire

$120/m

Most Popular

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • 2 Private coaching calls  (60-mins each)  
BUY NOW

Emerald

$479/m

Immediate Access To Everything inside the Foundations For Love Membership 

PLUS

  • Weekly Private coaching calls (60 mins each) + priority scheduling
BUY NOW