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Foundations For Love 

Empowering Single Women

To Create a Life Filled with Lasting Love and Meaningful Relationships


When you desire a fulfilling love life alongside a life you truly cherish, it all begins with a solid foundation of love. It's time to show up for your life with a heart that is healed and wide open.

Are you prepared to welcome the abundance of love that awaits you right now?

Introducing the Foundations For Love Membership experience. This transformative program is designed specifically for single women who yearn for meaningful relationships and a blissful marriage. Through expert coaching and powerful tools, we will equip you to effectively pursue your God-given desire for love.

Whether you're currently in a relationship, yearning for a deep connection, or seeking to cultivate self-love, I am here to support you every step of the way.



Your Path to a Life Filled with Lasting Love and Meaningful Relationships


As a member of Foundations For Love, you'll gain exclusive access to a comprehensive suite of resources, coaching, and support tailored specifically for single women ready to embrace a fulfilling love life and find their lifelong partner.

Here's what you can expect as part of your membership:


Expert Coaching and Guidance: You'll receive personalized coaching from Saphire Lily Mtongwiza, a renowned Forever Love Podcast host and Christ-centered Relationship coach. With her compassionate and insightful guidance, she will help you navigate the complexities of love, heal past wounds, and create a solid foundation for lasting meaningful relationships.

Transformational Tools and Exercises: Gain access to a wealth of transformational tools and exercises that are designed to empower you on your journey towards love. From self-reflection prompts to practical action steps, these resources will assist you in developing a deep understanding of yourself, enhancing your self-worth, and attracting the love you deserve.

Comprehensive Curriculum: Our signature course, "Ready For The One," will take you through the six primary relationship milestones you'll encounter on your path to a committed love life. With over 30 video lessons, you'll explore topics ranging from self-discovery and dating to courtship and engagement. This self-paced course provides invaluable insights and practical strategies to help you navigate each stage with confidence and clarity.

Engaging Community and Support: Connect with a vibrant community of like-minded women who are also on their journey towards finding love. Share experiences, receive support, and celebrate milestones together. Additionally, benefit from weekly group coaching sessions where you can gain further guidance and inspiration from Saphire and fellow members.

Bonus Resources: Your membership includes an array of valuable bonus resources to enhance your personal growth and relationship-building journey. Enjoy a 90-Day Devotional to deepen your spiritual connection, a meditation pack to cultivate inner peace and clarity, conversation starters to foster meaningful connections, and a 31-Day Digital Detox Challenge to help you create a healthier relationship with technology. Plus, gain access to our exclusive Relationship Starter Course to refine your communication skills and build a strong foundation for thriving relationships.

By joining Foundations For Love, you're taking a powerful step towards transforming your love life and embracing the fulfilling relationships you desire. We are dedicated to supporting you every step of the way, providing you with the guidance, tools, and community you need to create a love-filled life that surpasses your wildest dreams.

Don't wait any longer. Take action now and embark on this incredible journey with us.

Are you ready to lay the foundations for a lifetime of love and meaningful relationships? 

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Discover if Foundations For Love is the Perfect Fit for You


Have you experienced the pain of past heartbreaks, questioning whether your perception of love was simply an illusion? If so, you're not alone. We understand the wounds that can linger and the doubts that arise when love doesn't unfold as expected.

Foundations For Love is designed for warm-hearted, resilient women who have a deep desire to love and be loved authentically. If you're ready to embark on a transformative journey towards lasting commitment, this program is tailor-made for you.

Perhaps you find yourself yearning to share your life with someone special, yet you're unsure if you're truly prepared for such a commitment. We recognize the mixed emotions that can arise in this delicate stage of your journey. Our program is here to provide the guidance and tools you need to navigate this phase with confidence and clarity.

At the core of Foundations For Love is the belief that you can make a profound impact in the life of a cherished partner without compromising your own values and well-being. We honor and respect your individuality and will support you in embracing a love that aligns with your true self.

If you're a tender-hearted woman who genuinely seeks a love that withstands the test of time, Foundations For Love offers the guidance, healing, and empowerment you've been searching for. It's time to let go of past disappointments and embark on a new chapter filled with possibilities.

Are you ready to break free from the limitations of the past and create a future grounded in love and fulfillment?

Join us in Foundations For Love and let us guide you on this extraordinary journey towards the love and connection you've always dreamed of.


Tailored Support for Every Woman


No matter where you are in your journey towards love, Foundations For Love provides the guidance and support you need. This program is designed to meet you exactly where you are, regardless of your age, relationship history, personality type, or level of clarity.

Age is just a number, and love knows no bounds. Whether you're 39, 50, or 65+, Foundations For Love embraces women of all ages who are ready to embark on a new chapter of love and companionship.

Perhaps you've endured the pain of divorce or have yet to experience your first kiss. Rest assured, we understand the unique challenges and emotions of different relationship experiences. Our program is crafted to help you heal, grow, and find love again, no matter what your past looks like. 

Are you shy and reserved, or do you tend to be more expressive and bold? Foundations For Love welcomes women of all personality types, whether you're as quiet as a mouse or a little "too" much for some. We celebrate your authenticity and empower you to embrace your true self in your journey towards love.

Whether you have a clear vision of what you want in a partner or feel completely clueless, Foundations For Love provides clarity and guidance. Our comprehensive resources and expert coaching will assist you in gaining a deeper understanding of your desires and navigating the path to a fulfilling relationship.

No matter who you are, what you've been through, or where you're headed, know that I am here to support you every step of the way. Together, we will lay the foundations for a love-filled life that surpasses your expectations.

Are you ready to embark on this incredible journey towards love and companionship? 

Join Foundations For Love today and let's create a future filled with meaningful connections and lifelong happiness.


Welcome to the perfect place for you!


In the Foundations For Love Program, I will guide you through an incredible transformational journey, providing you with essential coaching, mindset shifts, powerful tools, and unwavering Christ-centered support.

Here's how Foundations For Love will empower you on your unique path towards love:


Expert Coaching: Benefit from personalized coaching sessions with me, where I will share invaluable insights, practical strategies, and heartfelt guidance tailored to your specific needs. Together, we will address any obstacles, heal past wounds, and empower you to embrace a love-filled future.

Transformative Mindset Shifts: Through our program, you will experience powerful mindset shifts that will reshape your perspective on love, relationships, and self-worth. Let go of limiting beliefs and embrace empowering truths that will magnetize the love and fulfillment you desire.

Empowering Tools: Gain access to a comprehensive toolkit of resources and exercises designed to empower you in every aspect of your journey. From self-reflection prompts to actionable steps, these tools will enable you to cultivate self-awareness, deepen connections, and create a solid foundation for lasting love.

Christ-Centered Support: In the Foundations For Love Program, we honor the importance of faith and offer unwavering Christ-centered support. Together, we will explore how your relationship with God can be integrated into your pursuit of love, allowing you to align your heart's desires with His divine plan for you.

With the Foundations For Love Program, you'll receive the guidance, mindset shifts, practical tools, and Christ-centered support that will empower you to create a love story beyond your wildest dreams. It's time to step into the love-filled future you deserve.

Are you ready to embark on this transformative journey towards love? Join the Foundations For Love Program today and let's create a future filled with joy, fulfillment, and Christ-centered love.



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What I love the most about this program is the bite-sized wisdom I incorporated into my every day and the fact that I can revisit the work as often as I want. 

Meeting Lily and having her as my coach was one of my best decisions because I didn’t realize just how much brain drama I had!

She has helped me sift through a lot of confusing, scary,  and unhelpful thoughts. I know this work was necessary to grow into the woman God created me to be.

I would recommend this program to women who know they have so much love to give to the right man but are tired of the hurt.

Vicky Spooner UK


Exclusive Limited Time Offer

With this coaching experience,

you'll be able to…


  • Establish a Solid Foundation: Deepen your relationship with God as the cornerstone of your future marriage. Build a strong spiritual connection that will sustain and guide you throughout your journey towards lasting love.

  • Discover Your True Worth: Embrace your inherent value and let go of seeking validation from external sources. Learn to listen to that still small voice within, recognizing your worth and making decisions based on self-assurance and inner guidance.

  • Selectively Connect with Potential Partners: Develop discernment in choosing partners who align with your standards and share the potential for an equally-yoked, God-centered marriage. Embrace a purposeful approach to forming connections that honor your values and long-term aspirations.

  • Validate Your Relationship: Take the time to ensure you are ready and willing to invest in taking the connection to the next level. Engage in prayerful consideration of each individual, seeking wisdom and guidance to ensure compatibility and shared values.

  • Navigate Challenging Conversations: Master the art of addressing the difficult questions and conversations that can make or break a relationship. Develop effective communication skills and gain the confidence to navigate challenging topics with grace, understanding, and honesty.

  • Cultivate Patience and Growth: Give your relationships the time and space they need to blossom and grow. Foster an environment of patience, allowing your connection to mature naturally, free from unnecessary drama and uncertainty.

  • With Foundations For Love, you'll be equipped with the tools, mindset, and guidance to establish a strong foundation for your future marriage, make wise decisions, navigate challenging conversations, and nurture relationships that are built to last.

    Are you ready to embark on this transformative journey towards a love-filled future? Join the Foundations For Love Program today and lay the groundwork for a fulfilling and God-centered marriage.



A Small Sample Of Our Amazing Community

I finally know who I am in Christ and believe it's okay to cherish myself.  I can’t wait to wake up and spend quality time with Jesus.  I can’t wait to let my future husband know I have been praying for Him! This has been an enormous blessing, and I have loved working with Lily and the RFTO program.

- Melissa 


I feel this course (Ready For The One) brought order to my life. It answered deep-core questions and guided me through situations that came up in the dating process. It provided solid troubleshooting for potential dating situations and gave me the confidence to ask for exactly what I needed. Plus, the coaching support was priceless.

- Simone


Ready For The One was terrific for helping me step through the phases of transforming my mind and heart to prepare for embracing love from God and a man again. I needed Lily and her program to help me see the fear and habits holding me back from trying to pursue love. 

- Abdi 


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Ready For The One

Foundations For Love's Signature Course!


Module 1

Take Back Your Power

Co-author your love story with God and regain control of your love life. Say goodbye to the damsel in distress mentality and make Christ-centered decisions about your relationships. Discover who you are, what you want, and how to honor God in your choices.




  • Unlock the power of The Life Code coaching tool for a Christ-like mindset and fruitful relationships.
  • Cultivate spiritual and emotional maturity for making integrity-driven decisions.
  • Identify your God-given desires and create a plan to pursue them with conviction.
  • Make peace with your past and develop healthy habits to avoid codependency.

Module 2

Know Your Worth


Embrace your inherent value and create a love story that showcases the faithfulness of love in this world. Trust yourself, God, and others as you cherish your core values and authenticity.


  • Practice 7 practical principles for starting a healthy relationship based on self-respect and trust.
  • Manage expectations and recognize manipulative tendencies.
  • Craft an irresistible offer that attracts quality partners and protects you from harmful relationships.

Module 3



Learn the art and science of making a great first impression and approach dating with confidence. Position yourself strategically for love, define your personal dating protocol, and establish trust and honest communication.


  • Attract quality partners regardless of your circumstances.
  • Set your own rules guided by the Holy Spirit for successful and safe dating.
  • Master the art of making a positive first impression without losing your authentic self.

Module 4



Make Christ-centered decisions guided by the wisdom of the Holy Spirit. Quiet the chaos in your mind and recognize the voice of the Good Shepherd leading you forward.


  • Overcome overwhelming indecision and confusion.
  • Deepen your relationship with God and seek His guidance.
  • Embrace imperfection and trust that all things work for your good.

Module 5



Discover the beauty of courtship as a bridge between dating and engagement. Learn how to navigate this crucial phase and create a shared vision for your relationship.


  • Master the principles of courtship and its significance.
  • Discuss important topics before engagement to ensure alignment.
  • Harmonize as a couple without compromising individual needs.

Module 6

Prepare For Marriage


Set your marriage up for success by addressing the three biggest obstacles: Sex, Money, and Conflict. Build a strong foundation and create a honeymoon experience worth remembering.


  • Transition from "me to we" with intention and understanding.
  • Deepen intimacy with your fiancé and prepare for committed love.
  • Establish open communication and transparency in your relationship.
Join the Foundations For Love Program and embark on a transformative journey towards a lasting and fulfilling marriage

Unlock Additional Bonuses to Deepen Your Connection with Yourself, God, and Your Future Spouse!

When you join the Foundations For Love Program, you'll receive exclusive bonuses designed to enhance your personal growth and strengthen your relationships. These bonuses are included to provide you with comprehensive support on your journey towards lasting love.


Here are the valuable bonuses you'll gain access to:


  • Daily Devotional: Start each day with inspiration and spiritual guidance. Immerse yourself in the Word of God and nurture your relationship with Him.
  • Weekly Group Coaching: Join a supportive community of like-minded individuals on a similar journey. Engage in group coaching sessions to gain additional insights, share experiences, and receive guidance from Saphire Lily Mtongwiza herself.
  • Access to Replay Library: Never miss a moment of valuable content. Gain unlimited access to a library of recorded coaching sessions, allowing you to revisit important lessons and deepen your understanding at your own pace.
  • Meditation Pack: Discover the power of mindfulness and find inner peace through guided meditations. Cultivate a calm and centered mindset as you navigate your relationships and personal growth.
  • 31-Day Digital Detox Challenge: Break free from digital distractions and create space for meaningful connections. Take part in a transformative challenge that will help you prioritize real-life interactions and foster deeper connections with yourself and others.
  • Conversation Starters: Never struggle with initiating meaningful conversations again. Gain access to a collection of thoughtful conversation starters that will spark engaging dialogues and deepen your connections with your future spouse.
  • The Relationship Starter Course: Lay a strong foundation for your relationship journey. This comprehensive course covers essential relationship skills, communication strategies, and practical tools to help you navigate the early stages of a relationship with confidence and clarity.

Additionally, you'll receive an All Access Pass to everything Saphire Lily Mtongwiza creates. As a member, you'll be the first to access any new courses, resources, and exclusive content she releases, ensuring that you continue to receive ongoing support and guidance.

And remember, no contracts or commitments are holding you back. You can cancel any time, allowing you to tailor your membership to your individual needs and goals.

Don't miss out on these incredible bonuses that will elevate your personal growth, strengthen your connection with God, and prepare you for a meaningful and fulfilling marriage. Join the Foundations For Love Program today and embark on a transformative journey towards lasting love and happiness.


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Frequently Asked Questions

Still unsure?

Here are six compelling reasons to join the Foundations For Love Program:

1. Get it right from the start.
Discover a Christ-centered approach to love and avoid wasted time.

2. Expert guidance for successful relationships.
Benefit from expert insights to navigate faith-based relationships.

3. Break the cycle of heartbreak.
Learn from past experiences and make informed decisions.

4. Improve your dating methods.
Master effective skills for online and offline dating success.

5. Overcome the fear of heartbreak.
Build resilience and embrace the lessons of love.

6. Commit to your marriage dream.
Invest in personal growth and step outside your comfort zone.

Ready to embrace the journey towards lasting love?
Sign up now and transform your approach to relationships!

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Life and love are complex, but I'm here to guide you:

  • Sharing your life with someone is challenging.
  • Relationships don't solve all problems.
  • Love can sometimes feel lonely.
  • Opening up and being vulnerable is not easy.
  • We often lack the skills to be kind to ourselves and authentic with others.
  • Figuring out where to focus your energy for lasting change can be overwhelming.
  • Being married isn't inherently better than being single, just different.
  • Your desire for marriage is valid and stems from God and yourself.
  • No matter what your journey looks like, I am here to support you.
  • By honoring your desire for love, you can make a positive impact on the world.

I'm looking forward to embarking on this transformative journey together,

With all my heart!
Saphire Lily Mtongwiza


"You can impact the world by honoring your God-given desire to love and be loved."



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