Trust Issues: Working On Them In A Christ-Centered Way

3 ways your trust issues are blocking you from a Christ-centered marriage 

 

How does a Christian woman build trust in a new romantic relationship?

 

If you want a simple, thorough guide to overcoming trust issues from a Christ-centered perspective, you've come to the right place.

 

Christian women worldwide struggle to get into healthy, Godly relationships and enjoy a Christ-centered marriage because they don't know how to deal with their trust issues.

 

In this extensive in-depth article:

 

I'll walk you through the step-by-step process for...

Continue Reading...

Where do you see this relationship going?

dating deliberately Apr 01, 2021

Are you afraid to ask this question?

 

Where do you see this relationship going? It's an important question to ask and an essential conversation for every couple to have.

 

As someone who has decided to honor their God-given desire for marriage, it's important for you to check in with your boyfriend and ask him directly, "where do you see this relationship going?

 

Scary, I know.

 

Especially if you've been dating for a while, things are going well, you have fun together, and you like each other. He even invited you over to his mother's house for dinner.

 

...
Continue Reading...

How To Get A Boyfriend: 7 Secrets Christian Women Need to Know

Single Christian women want to know one thing: How to get a boyfriend.

  

But not just any man will do. 


He needs to be an equally-yoked Christian who loves the Lord, is ready to get married, and, ideally, start a family. 

 

You're praying and fasting and waiting on the Lord to send you your Boaz. But all you see are empty fields.

 

Where is he? And what is holding him up?

 

You're looking for a quality Christian man who will lead you and your household closer to God. You know the importance of waiting for the right one because the last thing you...

Continue Reading...

3 Reasons dating in 2021 is better than you think

dating deliberately Dec 30, 2020

If the lockdown put your love life on hold, then you might be a little bit skeptical about dating in the new year. But, despite the obvious challenges, there are 3 reasons why dating in 2021 in the midst of a pandemic is actually the best thing for you.

 

It's possible that masks, social distancing, and zoom sessions are all working for you.

 

Now that we've all gotten over the initial confusion, people are settling into a new norm. That means it will be easier than ever before to connect with like-minded individuals who want to form a Christ-centred relationship.

 

...

Continue Reading...

How to get a man's attention without looking desperate

dating deliberately Dec 23, 2020

The right and wrong way to get a man's attention.

 

If you want to get a man's attention AND have a healthy, Christ-centered relationship that can progress from dating to marriage, you have to go from, "Look at me, Look at me" to "I see you, I know you, I've got your back, and I'm here to help."

 

Trying to date when you're feeling anxiety, loneliness and desperation is a terrible experience for everyone involved.

 

But it can feel like there's no way out of it other than to try harder.

 

Which causes you to act more desperate, more anxious, and go home at the...

Continue Reading...

Courting and dating are vital to a successful marriage. Here's why

Courting and dating are two essential ingredients that both work together to produce a successful marriage.

 

They're not opposites, and you don't have to choose one or the other.

 

On the contrary, you should understand and use both at the appropriate stage of the relationship.

 

Both courting and dating have tremendous benefits when you do them intentionally from a place of Christ-centered love.

 

Dating is important for creating opportunities to get to meet and get to know someone.

 

If you're not interested in any of the men you currently know, then...

Continue Reading...

How To Flirt As A Confident Single Christian Woman

dating deliberately Oct 15, 2020
 

Are you wondering how to flirt as a Christian woman?
I mean, what are the rules? And, is it even allowed?

 

If you're a single Christian lady and you're trying to attract a man, you're bound to get all kinds of unsolicited advice about what's okay and what's not. People are going to tell you that nice ladies don't flirt. And I will tell you, they're wrong!

 

Flirting is nothing more than communicating that you've noticed and have an interest in someone. When you flirt, you're giving them an invitation to respond accordingly.

 

So, if you're single and eligible and you...

Continue Reading...

3 Ways Unequally Yoked Relationships Cause Painful Heartache

 

Getting into an unequally yoked relationship is something that many single Christian women are worried about and for a good reason.

 

While visiting the rural areas of Zimbabwe, I saw for the first time two unequally yoked oxen. It's not an uncommon sight as many people don't have large herds of cattle to choose from and so they are forced to make the best with what they have available. As a result, they end up yoking together two animals that are two different sizes.

 

The more significant the difference in size, the more absurd it looks. When I first saw it, I laughed and...

Continue Reading...

3 Unexpected Ways to Glorifying God Through Dating

dating deliberately Sep 30, 2020
 

Is it possible to glorify God through dating?


The Church has a tendency to portray dating as a dangerous wilderness that can cause you to go astray and leave you far from God.

 

Let's remedy that, shall we?

 

Today, I've got three words of wisdom and encouragement to help you glorify God through dating.

 

I also want to extend a quick invitation to take a transformational journey with like-minded women inside my private Facebook Group for single Christian women. 

 

Let's start at the beginning by recognizing the truth.
As a single woman, not only can you enjoy love...

Continue Reading...
Close

50% Complete

Two Step

Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua.