Will God Forgive Me? How to Answer this Critical Question

Will God Forgive Me? And, Are My Sins is Keeping Me from My God-Given Desire for Marriage? 


Will God forgive me?

I'm sure you've lain in bed pondering this question on more than one occasion. 

I know I have. 
I've also wondered how many times will God forgive me for the same sin?


There have been many dark moments in my life (especially when I was single) when I was extremely aware of my sin and asked myself that question. Will God forgive me when I know I am sinning when I am in the very act of doing something I know is wrong?


I know that God is good....

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The Wilderness Experience: 5 Keys You Need In The Wild

There's no way around the wilderness Experience.


You're going to go through a wilderness experience. No matter how strong your faith is, no matter how faithful your walk with God has been, and no matter where you are in life, you are going to have to go through the wilderness.


Abraham, Moses, David, Elijah, and Jesus himself all had their times in the wilderness, and you will too.


So, if you're not currently having a wilderness experience, you're bound to have one coming up or know someone who is.


Here's a little balm for the soul!

The wilderness...

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Trust Issues: Working On Them In A Christ-Centered Way

3 ways your trust issues are blocking you from a Christ-centered marriage 


How does a Christian woman build trust in a new romantic relationship?


If you want a simple, thorough guide to overcoming trust issues from a Christ-centered perspective, you've come to the right place.


Christian women worldwide struggle to get into healthy, Godly relationships and enjoy a Christ-centered marriage because they don't know how to deal with their trust issues.


In this extensive in-depth article:


I'll walk you through the step-by-step process for...

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Where Do You See This Relationship Going?

Are you afraid to ask this question?


Where do you see this relationship going? It's an important question to ask and an essential conversation for every couple to have.


As someone who has decided to honor their God-given desire for marriage, it's important for you to check in with your boyfriend and ask him directly, "where do you see this relationship going?


Scary, I know.


Especially if you've been dating for a while, things are going well, you have fun together, and you like each other. He even invited you over to his mother's house for dinner.


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Leave Your Toxic Past Behind And Pursue A Christ-Centered Marriage

Are you ready to be a Godly wife and have a Christ-centered marriage?


Decide to leave your past behind you and pursue your dream of being a Godly wife in a Christ-centered marriage.


Before I married my husband Lovingson, I endured a series of dysfunctional, toxic, and ungodly relationships. I wanted a Christ-centered marriage. I dreamed of something better, but life had taught me to take what you can get and make the most of it.


The problem was, I had no idea I could ask for more.


I grew up in a broken and dysfunctional home. I married my high school...

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What RFTO Students Had To Say About The Course

Ready For The One launched in December 2020 and students have been sharing their success stories with me from week 1. 

The insights they've gained inside the program have helped them go from feeling lost and confused, to clear and focused on the road ahead. 
That's why I wanted to share some of the feedback and stories I've had the privilege of hearing. 
The first one comes from Leigh-Ann P. 
She wrote: 
First, I wanted to say how much I have been enjoying the modules. 
For starters, I wanted to share something with you...
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How To Get A Boyfriend: 7 Secrets Christian Women Need to Know

Single Christian women want to know one thing: How to get a boyfriend.


But not just any man will do. 

He needs to be an equally-yoked Christian who loves the Lord, is ready to get married, and, ideally, start a family. 


You're praying and fasting and waiting on the Lord to send you your Boaz. But all you see are empty fields.


Where is he? And what is holding him up?


You're looking for a quality Christian man who will lead you and your household closer to God. You know the importance of waiting for the right one because the last thing you...

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Baby Fever: Women in the Bible had it too


If you have an almost desperate emotional desire to have a baby, you might have caught a case of what is commonly known as baby fever.


This isn't about choosing the best time to have a baby; it's about that deep longing desire that many women (and men) experience when they see a baby and want nothing more than to have one of their own.


Baby fever can occur at any stage of life regardless of your current situation or circumstances. One of the most frustrating problems is that it seems to appear at the most inopportune times.


The first time I caught the baby...

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What you need to know when Praying For Your Future Husband

Praying for your future husband as a single Christian woman sounds like a good idea, but before you fall to your knees and whisper, "Dear God, Please send me a godly man to be my husband," consider this;


Is this the kind of prayer single Christian women should be praying?


Maybe, maybe not. Let's take a look at both sides of the argument so that you can decide.


I've provided 3 prayers for your future husband at the end of this post that you can use when you're ready but first consider this...


When you're single and waiting for the one, it can feel like it's...

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How To Get Over An Ex? There's only ONE way

How To Get Over An Ex


There's really only one way to get over an ex. Of course, you can find dozens of tips on how to let go and move on, but at the end of the day, there's only one way to do it. Love him.


Obviously, this will fly in the face of 98% of the conventional wisdom out there, but as Christian women, we need only concern ourselves with the truth of God. His truth is The Truth, and The Truth will set you free.


God knows what true freedom looks like, and He set the example for us. We love because He first loved us. And if we truly want to put a...

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