Self-care gets a bad rap in many Christian circles.

Why is that?

Well, one reason is that many churches are operating using a system that uses power over people, especially single Christian women, to get the bulk of its work done. 

The good news?

You don't have to play by their rules...

Beating yourself up seems to be a hobby for many of the single Christian women I work with. 

For others, it's a quiet ritual they feel compelled to engage in every so often to keep themselves from becoming too proud. 

There's this quiet, sickening idea that has crept into the minds of...

Loveable.
It's that feeling we all long for. We want to believe that it's easy for others to love us. That we are liked for who we are, and we don't have to change a thing.

How many love songs have been written about all the loveable people?
Think of all the loveable quotes that have...

Self-love is essential to establishing an equally yoked relationship. 

Self-love is not selfish!
As a single Christian woman, it's actually an essential part of your walk with God and absolutely critical to establishing an equally yoked relationship and Christ-centred...

Are you wondering how to flirt as a Christian woman?
I mean, what are the rules? And, is it even allowed?

If you're a single Christian lady and you're trying to attract a man, you're bound to get all kinds of unsolicited advice about what's okay and what's not. People are going to tell...

Dating men from church has become a problem.
Many of my clients have found there's aren't enough of them to go around. Plus, there's' seems to be an uneven playing field. The ratio of women to men is way out of balance, and the boys don't want to play ball.

My client Julie told me that...

Soul Ties, what are they, and how do you know if you have one? 

Soul ties have a long history of being misunderstood, especially in the church. 

These misunderstandings are particularly damaging to single Christian women who want to pursue their God-given desire for marriage.

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One fear plagues single Christian women more than any other, and it sounds like this;

I'm not sure if God wants me to get married.

As a relationship coach, I've heard it repeatedly, and it devastating the Christian community.

I can almost hear you thinking...
I don't want to...

It's Time To Embrace Being Single!

I know you think that it's been too long already.
You were expecting a ring by now, and you never thought you would get to this point and still be single. 

You must be wondering what the problem is and whether or not you should give up the dream and...

Dreaming About Your Ex Doesn't Mean What You Think It Does. 

Dreaming about your ex can be very unsettling, especially if it keeps happening long after the relationship has ended. 

To this day, I still have dreams about an ex from one of my worst relationships. It used to bother...