Courting and dating are two essential ingredients that both work together to produce a successful marriage.

They're not opposites, and you don't have to choose one or the other.

On the contrary, you should understand and use both at the appropriate stage of the relationship.

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Let's be honest; if you don't know what you're looking for, the chances of finding it are pretty slim. Marriages come in all kinds of different shapes and sizes these days, but if you're interested in a Christ-centred covenant marriage, then you'll want to determine which of these 4 marriage...

Before the resurrection of Jesus Christ, marriage was a matter of life or death for most women.  Enjoying a Christ-centred covenant marriage wasn't an option until Jesus restored what was lost in the Garden of Eden.

Some Christians seem to have forgotten this critical differentiator...

What if I told you the secret to being successful in marriage was this: never get married for the wedding.

I know, I've poured a little cold water on your dream.
Because let's be real, you've been planning that wedding for a looooong time.

But here’s the sad mistake many people make that not...

Self-care gets a bad rap in many Christian circles.

Why is that?

Well, one reason is that many churches are operating using a system that uses power over people, especially single Christian women, to get the bulk of its work done. 

The good news?

You don't have to play by their rules...

Beating yourself up seems to be a hobby for many of the single Christian women I work with. 

For others, it's a quiet ritual they feel compelled to engage in every so often to keep themselves from becoming too proud. 

There's this quiet, sickening idea that has crept into the minds of...

Loveable.
It's that feeling we all long for. We want to believe that it's easy for others to love us. That we are liked for who we are, and we don't have to change a thing.

How many love songs have been written about all the loveable people?
Think of all the loveable quotes that have...

Self-love is essential to establishing an equally yoked relationship. 

Self-love is not selfish!
As a single Christian woman, it's actually an essential part of your walk with God and absolutely critical to establishing an equally yoked relationship and Christ-centred...

Are you wondering how to flirt as a Christian woman?
I mean, what are the rules? And, is it even allowed?

If you're a single Christian lady and you're trying to attract a man, you're bound to get all kinds of unsolicited advice about what's okay and what's not. People are going to tell...

Dating men from church has become a problem.
Many of my clients have found there's aren't enough of them to go around. Plus, there's' seems to be an uneven playing field. The ratio of women to men is way out of balance, and the boys don't want to play ball.

My client Julie told me that...