#71: Boundaries vs Ultimatums: know the difference in your relationship

forever love podcast May 13, 2022

There's an important distinction between a boundary and an ultimatum. 

And it all comes down to the emotion and intention behind it. 

The formula for both is the same, "if you do X I will do Y" but the emotion and thought that is fueling it will determine which one it is. 

You're going to love today's episode because it will empower you to establish healthy boundaries without the fear of creating an ultimatum and ruining a good relationship. 

I'll also explain why some people will interpret your boundaries as an ultimatum no matter what you do and how to handle that situation. 

Please enjoy today's episode and if you found it helpful (which I'm positive you will) consider sharing it with someone else who will benefit as well. 


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