#51: How To Deal with Loneliness and Disappointment During The Holidays

forever love podcast Nov 25, 2021

Dealing With Your Difficult Feelings During The Holidays And Set Yourself Up For Relationship Success In The New Year


Why do people have to be this lonely? What's the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them yearning, looking to others to satisfy them, yet isolating themselves. Why? Was the earth put here just to nourish human loneliness?”

Haruki Murakami,


Turn to me and be gracious to me, for I am lonely and afflicted.

Psalm 25:16


It often feels like loneliness is an unavoidable and inevitable human condition that is especially difficult for single women during the holiday season.

In today's episode, I want to share a few tips on what to do with that feeling and how to make this season a little easier on yourself emotionally. 

This is a must-listen-to episode if you've ever felt like the weeks between Nov 25 and Jan 1st are more difficult than other days on the calendar. 

Let's talk about...

  • Why feeling lonely doesn't mean you're weak
  • How to avoid compounding your pain
  • What to do with painful thoughts
  • 3 suggestions to help you connect with others


I also have some age-specific advice for those over 40 and my millennial friends. The way we deal with anxiety around isolation has changed for those of us who grew up with filters and faux. 

Be sure to stay tuned in 'till the end because I have an extra special invitation that will help set you up for relationship success in 2022. 


I’ve put together a brand new Masterclass to give you exactly what you need to help you achieve that God-given desire. 

I am so excited to announce it to you...

My New Masterclass “5 Secrets To Attracting A Godly Husband


 I know you’re doing your best, and some days are better than others. 


But if you haven’t been able to achieve what you want, there are a few things I’d like to show you to help make your journey to marriage a little easier. 


Here’s the deal when it comes to this new Masterclass: 

There are roadblocks I see come up again and again in otherwise incredibly capable women who set their sights on enjoying a Christ-centered marriage.

Trust me, I’ve dealt with every single one myself at some point. 

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And while I’ll be covering each of these possible pitfalls during this new class, I’m also going to show you the secrets to avoiding them. Yes, this class is packed with plenty of positivity, ideas, and step-by-step strategies to ensure you can attract the type of man you’d actually like to spend the rest of your life with. 

Here’s a preview of what we’ll cover: 

The #1 secret to attracting an equally yoked and Godly husband - It’s not as difficult as you might think once you know what to look for. 

What to do when you don’t feel ready for a commitment but you’re also tired of being alone. No one said these emotions are rational. It’s okay that you have mixed feelings but I’ll also show you how to send the right signals. 

How to guard your heart and still show up for love. My rule for creating more space for romantic relationships to exist in your life. 

A small but powerful mindset shift that will transform the way you look at dating and creating intimacy with someone special - the phrase “I just don’t know if God wants me to get married” will never be uttered from your lips again.  

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This Masterclass is a Must-Attend if...


  • You're tired of feeling sad and lonely, and you would love to know how to break out of this cycle of broken (maybe even toxic) relationships.  If you don't know how to let go of those painful emotions, I'm going to help you.
  • You feel called to marriage (and maybe motherhood), and you long for a Christ-centered way to honor that God-given desire.
  • You want practical instruction on exactly what you need to do to attract an equally-yoked partner.
  • You don't want to bombard your next relationship with baggage and heartache from the past.
  • Your relationship with God seems to conflict with the desires of your heart.
  • You're tired of being alone, and you want a breakthrough!


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Ready to say buh-bye to lonely dinners for one and learn the 5 secrets to true and lasting love?

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