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#28: How to Establish Boundaries Without Creating Unrealistic Expectations

forever love podcast Jun 29, 2021
Boundaries for Christ-centered dating.

You can't have a Christ-centered relationship without strong boundaries. 


Establishing boundaries is one of the kindest things you can do for yourself and those around you.


I’m going to show you how you can make the ultimate shift from struggling to get men to respect your boundaries, feeling offended and frustrated to establishing boundaries that are created from a place of love and can be honored no matter what the other person chooses to do.


When you learn how to recognize and honor your own boundaries, you move into alignment with God’s will, and you open up a pathway that leads to your God-given desires.


I could never have enjoyed the marriage I have today if it wasn’t for the work I did 10 years ago when I began to establish some boundaries in my life.

And this is work that will continue throughout your life, it’s not a set it and forget it kind of thing. Your boundaries will continue to evolve as you go through different stages of your life. That is why it is such an important skill to acquire. 


Now, I’m going to give you the basics to get started here and through the devotional and inside the Free Facebook group. 


But I know how difficult it can be to really establish these boundaries in your life and that’s why I’m also doing an advanced workshop this Saturday, July 3rd so that I can personally help you work out your boundaries in a group coaching, interactive workshop where you’ll have an opportunity to share your struggles and get individualized help and a plan to move forward. 


I will invite you to the workshop at the end of this episode, if you choose to continue this journey with me the Boundaries and Red Flags workshop is your way to continue to implement everything you’re about to learn and troubleshoot the challenges that will inevitably come up when you say no to the people you love. 


Throughout the workshop, I’ll be answering questions, sharing behind-the-scenes info about my own journey, and coaching so that you see how this all fits together in a way that is personalized for you. 


So I hope you’ll join me this Saturday for the advanced workshop because I know it will be so worthwhile to your emotional and spiritual well-being as you pursue your God-given desire for a Christ-centered marriage. I’ll give you all the registration details at the end. 


Links Mentioned:

โœ… 1. Join The Facebook Group and turn on your notifications ๐Ÿ›Ž 

There is an opportunity to win a 1-on-1 coaching session with me this week, and the more you participate the more chances you have to win.

๐Ÿ“Join Here:


โœ… 2. Download the Boundaries Devotional. 

This devotional is part of the Ready For The One Program and I'm giving you free access to it. It will help you establish boundaries while adopting the mind of Christ.

๐Ÿ“Download the Devotional Here>>


โœ… 3. Attend the Daily Live Q&A's

June 28 - July 2: 2 Pm EST | 11 Am PDT

These are quick 20-minute Live Q&A sessions inside the F.B Group, where we will go over the daily devotional, answer questions, and doing a bit of coaching.


โœ… 4. Sign up for the Advanced Boundaries WorkShop ๐Ÿ™Œ

For those who want to take this training to the next level, there will be an advanced interactive workshop on Boundaries and Red Flags this SATURDAY, JULY 3RD.

Get coached and learn how to apply these lessons to your own circumstances.

๐Ÿ“Register Here: Advance Boundaries & Red Flags Workshop


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