What you need to know when Praying For Your Future Husband

single and strong Jan 20, 2021

Praying for your future husband as a single Christian woman sounds like a good idea, but before you fall to your knees and whisper, "Dear God, Please send me a godly man to be my husband," consider this;


Is this the kind of prayer single Christian women should be praying?


Maybe, maybe not. Let's take a look at both sides of the argument so that you can decide.


I've provided 3 prayers for your future husband at the end of this post that you can use when you're ready but first consider this...


When you're single and waiting for the one, it can feel like it's...

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How To Get Over An Ex? There's only ONE way.

single and strong Jan 14, 2021

How To Get Over An Ex


There's really only one way to get over an ex. Of course, you can find dozens of tips on how to let go and move on, but at the end of the day, there's only one way to do it. Love him.


Obviously, this will fly in the face of 98% of the conventional wisdom out there, but as Christian women, we need only concern ourselves with the truth of God. His truth is The Truth, and The Truth will set you free.


God knows what true freedom looks like, and He set the example for us. We love because He first loved us. And if we truly want to put a...

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The Remarkable Art Of Allowing Them To Judge You.

single and strong Jan 06, 2021

People are going to judge you whether you like it or not. 


One of the reasons we have such an intense desire for self-control as a fruit of the Holy Spirit is that we want to use it to control and manipulate other people’s opinions. 


We think...

  • “I wish I could control myself more so they would like me.” 
  • “If I could speak more easily so they would listen to me.” 
  • “I need to control my eating so that I could be thinner, and he would be attracted to me.” 


But notice how that desire is more about...

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3 Reasons dating in 2021 is better than you think

dating deliberately Dec 30, 2020

If the lockdown put your love life on hold, then you might be a little bit skeptical about dating in the new year. But, despite the obvious challenges, there are 3 reasons why dating in 2021 in the midst of a pandemic is actually the best thing for you.


It's possible that masks, social distancing, and zoom sessions are all working for you.


Now that we've all gotten over the initial confusion, people are settling into a new norm. That means it will be easier than ever before to connect with like-minded individuals who want to form a Christ-centred relationship.



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How to get a man's attention without looking desperate.

dating deliberately Dec 23, 2020

The right and wrong way to get a man's attention.


If you want to get a man's attention AND have a healthy, Christ-centered relationship that can progress from dating to marriage, you have to go from, "Look at me, Look at me" to "I see you, I know you, I've got your back, and I'm here to help."


Trying to date when you're feeling anxiety, loneliness and desperation is a terrible experience for everyone involved.


But it can feel like there's no way out of it other than to try harder.


Which causes you to act more desperate, more anxious, and go home at the...

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Courting and dating are vital to a successful marriage. Here's why

Courting and dating are two essential ingredients that both work together to produce a successful marriage.


They're not opposites, and you don't have to choose one or the other.


On the contrary, you should understand and use both at the appropriate stage of the relationship.


Both courting and dating have tremendous benefits when you do them intentionally from a place of Christ-centered love.


Dating is important for creating opportunities to get to meet and get to know someone.


If you're not interested in any of the men you currently know, then...

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4 Marriage Models That You Need To Know About.


Let's be honest; if you don't know what you're looking for, the chances of finding it are pretty slim. Marriages come in all kinds of different shapes and sizes these days, but if you're interested in a Christ-centred covenant marriage, then you'll want to determine which of these 4 marriage models is best for you.


Once you know what you're looking for in a marriage, it will be far easier to find an equally yoked partner.


Here's why:


In the days before women's rights, a nice lady like yourself didn't have much say in who she was going to marry. That decision was...

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A Christ-Centred Covenant Is An Absolutely Miracle For Marriages

single and strong Nov 12, 2020

Before the resurrection of Jesus Christ, marriage was a matter of life or death for most women.  Enjoying a Christ-centred covenant marriage wasn't an option until Jesus restored what was lost in the Garden of Eden.


Some Christians seem to have forgotten this critical differentiator when teaching on Godly marriage. 


But it's incredibly important if we want to understand how to enjoy marriages that truly honor God and why we see so many polygamist marriages and such strict rules against interracial marriages throughout the Old Testament.


In fact,...

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Get Complete Clarity On Why You Want To Get Married.


What if I told you the secret to being successful in marriage was this: never get married for the wedding.

I know, I've poured a little cold water on your dream.
Because let's be real, you've been planning that wedding for a looooong time.

But here’s the sad mistake many people make that not only leaves them exhausted and hating life and often divorced. They say to themselves, “I’m just going to get married and we will figure it all out after the wedding...”

Or “I’m going to get married, and then God will bless our relationship and it will all work...

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Prioritize Self-Care To Make A Faith-Filled Impact On Your Love Life.

single and strong Oct 29, 2020


Self-care gets a bad rap in many Christian circles.

Why is that?

Well, one reason is that many churches are operating using a system that uses power over people, especially single Christian women, to get the bulk of its work done. 

The good news?

You don't have to play by their rules to be a good and faithful servant before God. 

In this post, I want to empower and encourage you to practice self-care biblically without guilt and shame.

I'm also going to expose some of the dirty little truths about why the church treats single women like second-class citizens. 


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