What RFTO Students Had To Say About The Course

rfto Feb 10, 2021
Ready For The One students have been sharing their success stories with me from week 1. 

The insights they've gained inside the program have helped them go from feeling lost and confused, to clear and focused on the road ahead. 
That's why I wanted to share some of the feedback and stories I've had the privilege of hearing. 
The first one comes from Leigh-Ann P. 
She wrote: 
First, I wanted to say how much I have been enjoying the modules. 
For starters, I wanted to share something with you that is very interesting....
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How To Get A Boyfriend: 7 Secrets Christian Women Need to Know.

Single Christian women want to know one thing: How to get a boyfriend.


But not just any man will do. 

He needs to be an equally-yoked Christian who loves the Lord, is ready to get married, and, ideally, start a family. 


You're praying and fasting and waiting on the Lord to send you your Boaz. But all you see are empty fields.


Where is he? And what is holding him up?


You're looking for a quality Christian man who will lead you and your household closer to God. You know the importance of waiting for the right one because the last thing you...

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Baby Fever: Women in the Bible had it too.

single and strong Jan 27, 2021

If you have an almost desperate emotional desire to have a baby, you might have caught a case of what is commonly known as baby fever.


This isn't about choosing the best time to have a baby; it's about that deep longing desire that many women (and men) experience when they see a baby and want nothing more than to have one of their own.


Baby fever can occur at any stage of life regardless of your current situation or circumstances. One of the most frustrating problems is that it seems to appear at the most inopportune times.


The first time I caught the baby fever...

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What you need to know when Praying For Your Future Husband

single and strong Jan 20, 2021

Praying for your future husband as a single Christian woman sounds like a good idea, but before you fall to your knees and whisper, "Dear God, Please send me a godly man to be my husband," consider this;


Is this the kind of prayer single Christian women should be praying?


Maybe, maybe not. Let's take a look at both sides of the argument so that you can decide.


I've provided 3 prayers for your future husband at the end of this post that you can use when you're ready but first consider this...


When you're single and waiting for the one, it can feel like it's...

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How To Get Over An Ex? There's only ONE way.

single and strong Jan 14, 2021

How To Get Over An Ex


There's really only one way to get over an ex. Of course, you can find dozens of tips on how to let go and move on, but at the end of the day, there's only one way to do it. Love him.


Obviously, this will fly in the face of 98% of the conventional wisdom out there, but as Christian women, we need only concern ourselves with the truth of God. His truth is The Truth, and The Truth will set you free.


God knows what true freedom looks like, and He set the example for us. We love because He first loved us. And if we truly want to put a...

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The Remarkable Art Of Allowing Them To Judge You.

single and strong Jan 06, 2021

People are going to judge you whether you like it or not. 


One of the reasons we have such an intense desire for self-control as a fruit of the Holy Spirit is that we want to use it to control and manipulate other people’s opinions. 


We think...

  • “I wish I could control myself more so they would like me.” 
  • “If I could speak more easily so they would listen to me.” 
  • “I need to control my eating so that I could be thinner, and he would be attracted to me.” 


But notice how that desire is more about...

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3 Reasons dating in 2021 is better than you think

dating deliberately Dec 30, 2020

If the lockdown put your love life on hold, then you might be a little bit skeptical about dating in the new year. But, despite the obvious challenges, there are 3 reasons why dating in 2021 in the midst of a pandemic is actually the best thing for you.


It's possible that masks, social distancing, and zoom sessions are all working for you.


Now that we've all gotten over the initial confusion, people are settling into a new norm. That means it will be easier than ever before to connect with like-minded individuals who want to form a Christ-centred relationship.



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How to get a man's attention without looking desperate.

dating deliberately Dec 23, 2020

The right and wrong way to get a man's attention.


If you want to get a man's attention AND have a healthy, Christ-centered relationship that can progress from dating to marriage, you have to go from, "Look at me, Look at me" to "I see you, I know you, I've got your back, and I'm here to help."


Trying to date when you're feeling anxiety, loneliness and desperation is a terrible experience for everyone involved.


But it can feel like there's no way out of it other than to try harder.


Which causes you to act more desperate, more anxious, and go home at the...

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Courting and dating are vital to a successful marriage. Here's why

Courting and dating are two essential ingredients that both work together to produce a successful marriage.


They're not opposites, and you don't have to choose one or the other.


On the contrary, you should understand and use both at the appropriate stage of the relationship.


Both courting and dating have tremendous benefits when you do them intentionally from a place of Christ-centered love.


Dating is important for creating opportunities to get to meet and get to know someone.


If you're not interested in any of the men you currently know, then...

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4 Marriage Models That You Need To Know About.


Let's be honest; if you don't know what you're looking for, the chances of finding it are pretty slim. Marriages come in all kinds of different shapes and sizes these days, but if you're interested in a Christ-centred covenant marriage, then you'll want to determine which of these 4 marriage models is best for you.


Once you know what you're looking for in a marriage, it will be far easier to find an equally yoked partner.


Here's why:


In the days before women's rights, a nice lady like yourself didn't have much say in who she was going to marry. That decision was...

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