3 Mistakes Women Make After Having Sex Outside of Marriage


Let go of the shame and stop trying to make things right without going to God.


What single Christian women like need to know about the consequences of fornication


Sex outside of marriage is pretty common these days, and no one seems to expect you to wait, except you and Jesus.


But what do you do when you don't live up to your own expectations and find yourself waking up beside the man that you love but didn't intend to sleep with yet?


In this episode, I'll share my own story of letting go of the past, so that I could create a future that was in alignment...

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#001: Creating Space For A Christ-Centered Relationship

forever love podcast May 02, 2021

It's time to create some much-needed space so that you can enjoy a Christ-centered relationship.

Please enjoy the first episode of The Forever Love Podcast, with Host, Lily Mtongwiza. 


In this episode, I'll share my own story of letting go of the past, so that I could create a future that was in alignment with what I wanted most; a relationship with God and eventually a family that was root in Christ. 

Listen and subscribe to the podcast at Apple podcastsSpotify, or elsewhere. 

Got a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? 
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Coming Soon. The Forever Love Podcast

forever love podcast Apr 28, 2021

I'm adding something new to mix to help you pursue your God-given desire for a Christ-centered marriage. The Forever Love Podcast. 

Can you help me reach my goal?

My intention as a coach is to always give way more to you my friends, students, and clients than I ever ask for in return.

I want to help you achieve your God-given desire for a Christ-centered marriage because I believe marriage matters and we need to learn how to start them in the best way possible.

On a foundational relationship with Jesus.

But, now I need your help!

My podcast Forever Love is coming out Next...

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Will God Forgive Me? How to Answer this Critical Question

single and strong Apr 22, 2021

Will God Forgive Me? And, Are My Sins is Keeping Me from My God-Given Desire for Marriage? 


Will God forgive me?

I'm sure you've lain in bed pondering this question on more than one occasion. 

I know I have. 
I've also wondered how many times will God forgive me for the same sin?


There have been many dark moments in my life (especially when I was single) when I was extremely aware of my sin and asked myself that question. Will God forgive me when I know I am sinning when I am in the very act of doing something I know is wrong?


I know that God is good....

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The Wilderness Experience: 5 Keys You Need In The Wild

guides Apr 15, 2021

There's no way around the wilderness Experience.


You're going to go through a wilderness experience. No matter how strong your faith is, no matter how faithful your walk with God has been, and no matter where you are in life, you are going to have to go through the wilderness.


Abraham, Moses, David, Elijah, and Jesus himself all had their times in the wilderness, and you will too.


So, if you're not currently having a wilderness experience, you're bound to have one coming up or know someone who is.


Here's a little balm for the soul!

The wilderness...

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Trust Issues: Working On Them In A Christ-Centered Way

3 ways your trust issues are blocking you from a Christ-centered marriage 


How does a Christian woman build trust in a new romantic relationship?


If you want a simple, thorough guide to overcoming trust issues from a Christ-centered perspective, you've come to the right place.


Christian women worldwide struggle to get into healthy, Godly relationships and enjoy a Christ-centered marriage because they don't know how to deal with their trust issues.


In this extensive in-depth article:


I'll walk you through the step-by-step process for...

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Where Do You See This Relationship Going?

dating deliberately Apr 01, 2021

Are you afraid to ask this question?


Where do you see this relationship going? It's an important question to ask and an essential conversation for every couple to have.


As someone who has decided to honor their God-given desire for marriage, it's important for you to check in with your boyfriend and ask him directly, "where do you see this relationship going?


Scary, I know.


Especially if you've been dating for a while, things are going well, you have fun together, and you like each other. He even invited you over to his mother's house for dinner.


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Leave Your Toxic Past Behind And Pursue A Christ-Centered Marriage

single and strong Mar 25, 2021

Are you ready to be a Godly wife and have a Christ-centered marriage?


Decide to leave your past behind you and pursue your dream of being a Godly wife in a Christ-centered marriage.


Before I married my husband Lovingson, I endured a series of dysfunctional, toxic, and ungodly relationships. I wanted a Christ-centered marriage. I dreamed of something better, but life had taught me to take what you can get and make the most of it.


The problem was, I had no idea I could ask for more.


I grew up in a broken and dysfunctional home. I married my high school...

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What RFTO Students Had To Say About The Course

rfto Feb 10, 2021
Ready For The One launched in December 2020 and students have been sharing their success stories with me from week 1. 

The insights they've gained inside the program have helped them go from feeling lost and confused, to clear and focused on the road ahead. 
That's why I wanted to share some of the feedback and stories I've had the privilege of hearing. 
The first one comes from Leigh-Ann P. 
She wrote: 
First, I wanted to say how much I have been enjoying the modules. 
For starters, I wanted to share something with you...
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How To Get A Boyfriend: 7 Secrets Christian Women Need to Know

Single Christian women want to know one thing: How to get a boyfriend.


But not just any man will do. 

He needs to be an equally-yoked Christian who loves the Lord, is ready to get married, and, ideally, start a family. 


You're praying and fasting and waiting on the Lord to send you your Boaz. But all you see are empty fields.


Where is he? And what is holding him up?


You're looking for a quality Christian man who will lead you and your household closer to God. You know the importance of waiting for the right one because the last thing you...

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