#51: How To Deal with Loneliness and Disappointment During The Holidays

Dealing With Your Difficult Feelings During The Holidays And Set Yourself Up For Relationship Success In The New Year

 

Why do people have to be this lonely? What's the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them yearning, looking to others to satisfy them, yet...

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# 50: From a man's perspective: Special Guest Lovingson Mtongwiza

Love, Attraction & Marriage

My husband shares his thoughts on relationships and answers YOUR questions. 



This is a very special episode because it’s our 50th episode and to celebrate, I wanted to introduce you to the love of my life, my husband Lovingson Mtongwiza.


Lovingson has...

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#49: How To Overcome Feelings Of Unworthiness

Have you had thoughts like these? 

  • Who am I to deserve love?
  • Who would want to be with someone like me?
  • What kind of man would want to spend his life with me? 

In today's episode, I'm talking about the ways in which those feelings of unworthiness creep into your life and sabotage...

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#48: Restore Amor After an Affair: How she prayed through 4 years of separation

How are you preparing for the challenges of marriage?


Are you terrified of making a mistake and making a fool of yourself?

Or do you believe that no matter what, you and your husband will find a way?

The unfortunate reality of marriage is this, on the other side of that altar, you're still...
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# 47: Let Your No Be No: How To Make Decisions

 Use your free will to be more Christ-like

 

Have you been thinking about working with me? If so, today, I wanted to talk with you about what being a coaching client is all about.

 

In this episode, I'm' going to share with you a process for making important decisions about how...

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#46: Moving Forward With Someone New

 When Does God Give Us The Green Light To Go Ahead?

 

Kaity left her last relationship over 5 years ago. There is a new man in her life, but there's still a question of whether or not God is calling her back to her past. She feels scared and doesn't want to make the wrong...

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#45: Evaluating what you have and honoring your God-given desire for marriage

"He says I'm a great catch and should start dating other men"

 

Norma wants Herman, but Herman is a widower who needs time to grieve. She also has a couple of suitors who have been interested in her for some time. Should she be patient and understanding as she waits for Herman to go through...

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#44: The Journey From Single To Married: An Interview With My Newly Engaged Client

 

How to make the transition from "banging your head against the wall", because nothing's working, to being engaged to an equally yoked and Christ-centered partner.

 

What kind of relationship do you want to create? 

What impact do you want your love to leave on the...

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#43: Behind The Scenes: What It's Like To Be Coached By Lily Mtongwiza

Ever wonder what people talk about in a coaching session?

Watch A Full Coaching Session HERE>>>

 
Oftentimes, people assume that the best part about being a relationship coach must be working from home or setting my own hours. 
 
While those are both true, and AMAZING...
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#42: Facts Vs. The Truth of God. How To Discern The Difference



Today I want to talk about our attachment to our stories.

I talk to clients all the time who are extremely sentimental about their stories even though they are painful and holding them back.

Just the other day, I was working with someone who wanted to tell me all about how everything...

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